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For the past 4 months, I've been involved with my ex who dumped me for someone else (who he is still currently in a relationship with). It was a 9 month relationship in which he lived with me, used me, and was emotionally abusive.
I admit that I've been stuck in a cycle, and I am too attached to get out.
Another reply made a good point that my ex might be someone who actually sought me out as a broken person... It makes me sad that he would do it, but everything you said sounds exactly like what he is doing to me right now, so it all makes sense.
:/ Guys, I just SO MUCH want to be a better person than this. I actually have much better days when we aren't in contact with eachother, so that should be a sign for me right there.
I was devastated and upset because he was hiding this from me for so long. I've tried so many times to just end it, but I can't. He treats me like dirt, and tells me straight out that he doesn't care about me. I guess what bugs me is that it hurts SO much to let him go. How can he treat you well when you treat yourself so badly sweetie If he'll dump you and then dump her you already know the pattern will just continue. What I see as important is how you will allow yourself to be used and treated poorly This comes from within andyou.... Please use condoms so that you're not reminded of this time in your life forever. (Counting to ten, tapping, deep breathing.) If you've got the time and money therapy. I've been seeing her for about a month now and I feel like even she is getting annoyed with me because it seems like I'm just going around in circles dealing with this relationship. I'd be a hypocrite if I said that I always ate right, never ate a whole bag of chips, and always did everything "right" for myself". The work you do on YOU now..last you the rest of your life.
Find ways to stay busy, block his number and look into some good self help books to read in your spare time or some funny light hearted books that make you smile. He must have done something to get your attention in this way and who came after who?
There is a certain type of people who methodically seek out admiration, worship, intense sex in the beginning and then intense post-break up sex.
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