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2 months later my ex came back and said sorry for every single reason I had left him for, but I decided to keep my rebound because I saw the potential for a great relationship and I didnt want to lose him without giving it a try. It was great and it all seemed healthy, they saw each other a few times as they share dogs and though I felt a tinge of worry I was fine with it.We have been together for almost 8 months now and Im still missing my ex, we saw each other because of work lately and it was really fun. We fight less than I did with my ex, he is loving and considerate but Im feeling numb, emotionless. Until we both started going through a rough patch, I was in a toxic work environment that left me depressed and unresponsive and he was under a lot of stress at the time.Therefore, two key factors influence people’s decisions about whether to get back together with an old flame—the quality of the relationship with the ex-partner, and the quality of the relationship with the new partner.Exciting new dating prospects can trump past worn-out relationships and help people get over their exes so they can better focus on their new, more compatible partners.
Remember, you want to look good next to your competition—and good sportsmanship is attractive.
I though time wouuld help me fall truly in love with my rebound and get over my ex but it doesnt seem to be working... I have many friends who, after breaking up with their respective exes, still refuse to hold themselves accountable for contributing to what became a toxic situation. One evening he confessed that he missed her and that he needed time apart to sort himself out, he didn't want to end the relationship with me he kept saying but he needed time to evaluate his own feelings and not be nostalgic when he was around me and work through their breakup as he felt he could not commit the way I deserve.
The takeaway is this-take very careful mental notes when you are first meeting someone, specifically with regard to how the new "object of your affection" syncs with the value set with which you were raised. now he is posting on fb how happy he is with her showing me off. I understood and went on about my business and not long afterwards did he call and said he was being silly and that they did see each other and talk at length as to whether they should try again but came to the conclusion that they do not work and recalled why they don't.
If you're the ex in this situation, what does all this mean for you?
Outside of trying to improve on your own relationship with your ex, all you can really do is wait and see—but do so patiently.